Category: the Rant Board
recently i have been venting about family fucking over. its a sad thing to admit when a bro or sis cheats you, steals from you and or lies to you. i am not sure if the blind thing is a factor, but sure i wanna be a good christian, o shit i aint a christian so look the other way or turn the other cheek when you are veing cheated out of money doesnt apply. so, what can i do? i can make holes in the wall. fuck up the plummbing. break windows. take a hammer to her truck. even slice her face so she will never forget me. i am wondering how much time in prison, jail or state institution i will spend if i attack the bitch? anyone?
i am sure that at the end of the pervebial day i wont doa damn thing but feel sad, cheated, hurt, upset and even shed tears. tears i will never forget. but, damn do i feel like fucking her property, whcih is part mine. not legaley, but it is. no docuements were signed, no iou's. sure there are receipts of the transactions. they reflect purchases i did not make. but, still i wanna fuck her up. make feel the hurt, pain, and frustation i am feeling. fuck, shit, damn it, whore, bitch, slut, cunt, herpes infected whore. not even i got an std and i have had hundred of sex partners! do scabbies count? *sights. ty for reading. now, fuck off me blind fuckers and if u lend relatives money make them sign an iou or something. cheers,gizzy
Oh wow, never do business or loan money to family or friends, just asking for trouble, especially with no signed documents. I learned that the hard way myself, still kicking myself for it.
You know what, this family values shit is just one of the many things wrong with society. They are pumped down our throats day in and day out. Family are people, people suck, the end.
just cause you share blood with someone, by no means makes them family. I get a ton of flack for feeling the way I do, but I'm firmly sticking to it.
in my opinion, family are the people you feel closest to and trust implicitly. sometimes, chosen family is best.
It's so sad family values ahve gone down the crapper so much. Stuff like this certainly contributes to the reason though, and it is understandable that so many people are attacking the family unit. It isn't supposed to be that way, but it's certainly turned into that.
certainley, chosen familycan prove to be closer, safer to deal with and easier to trust.
Yeah really. You'd just have to look at my mom's family to see that.
i think you need to seek help for your anger problem!!!!!!! Geesh psyco much!!!!/
People are people, and family are people who suck worse than people!
I had to get a lawyer to get my sister's name off all documents. My youngest nephew now has say as to what goes on. In one statement: My sister was greedy for my money and wanted to control my life. Sadly enough, her own kids have kicked her out of their business too; everybody still talks to one another but my sister is not told much about her sons affairs. She just is too dominating and nobody wants her in their business. Whoever on here said get signed documents about your affairs is right.
Agreed with those who say never ever ever loan, cosign, or do business with family. If you want to help a family member out, don't have any strings attached, or accept it with strings attached.
Honestly @gizmo's just workin' it off. Nothing a good hard run and some beers won't fix.
I tend to agree. I tend not to do business with family or friends. Because I can't exactly afford to hire thugs to break their legs if and when they don't pay up LOL. And as Judge Judy says, don't mix business with family.
Just because someone is related to you, does not mean they won't fuck you over. Everybody has flaws. this seems to be especially true with family's who combine business and personal lives. Definitely not something I recommend if you can avoid it.
But you can't pick your family. lol.
you can't pick your biological family, but you can pick and choose who you do business with.
You can't pick your biological family but you can pick your emotional family LOL.
that, too. Lol.
Emotional family? hmmm.
They say that blood is thicker than water. Not in this situation, I don't think. If that was the case, then married couples would not divorce. Kids would not be running away from home, or turning their backs on family for friends, who support them much more. Parents would not mess up their Kid's lives by controling them in every aspect.
I don't think all parents do that but yes the ones who do should be ashamed. The point is that family members are people and people cannot be trusted in every instance.
It's really unfortunate that it's come to this. Family is being under-valued. It's certainly understtandable given how much betrayal and drama some families go thorugg; it's just unfortunate.
Sorry, I wasn't refering to all parents, but the majority of them.
in all honesty, I wish people would start seeing this sort of thing as a source of empowerment rather than an unfortunate event. it's all in how you look at it. whether people like it or not, there are more and more "families" nowadays who don't deserve to be considered such.
You're right happy, there are. Doesn't make it any less unfortunate.
But why is it so unfortunate? The fact is we live in a time where such things as family values and other such concepts are not high up on the food chain so to speak? Let's face it, it is religion that fuils such notions and we need to see family as people as I have stated.
Stearing this away from yet another pointless religious debate, I just think the old idea of family loyalty and closeness is a great one. I am well aware this is idealistic. After all, neither family nor friends are 100% garonteed to be loyal unless the individual is. There should always be people who we should be able to turn to. I myself am not all that close to my family, and it makes me sad.
@blind guardian, you're one person. just cause it makes you sad, doesn't mean everyone shares those feelings. I'll say it again: it's all in how we look at it. people are people; shit happens. however, what we make of said events is what gives us character.
Yeah really. All you have to do is look around to see that. Or watch Dr. Phil. It goes back to what I said in another topic about how it's not who your biological family is that's important, particularly if they have a history of stabbing you in the back. I recently saw a story about a girl who ran away from home because she'd begun to come to terms with the fact that she was a lesbian and she'd already begun to see that her adoptive family, particularly her dad, wasn't going to be supportive. And then of course there was that gem of Judge Adams beating his daughter repeatedly with a belt for downloading music off the internet while his wife looked on. I don't condone stealing music but nor is it something that deserves that kind of reaction. ZBut as said it was all because the esteemed judge didn't want that to reflect negatively on his career. Talk about a disfunctional family if the father's career was more important.
In short, you need to be your own best friend sometimes.
That's certainly true in some ways. Ironic how many people can't stand themselves.
yourself is the only person that's going to stick with you your whole life (apart from god), so be happy with yourself, and always improve yourself as much as you can.
You may as well get used to yourself. lol.